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This Is How Men Really Think About Sex

Ihesiulo Grace 26 November 2017 0

Over my career as a sex therapist, I have had the opportunity to sit with thousands of men as they’ve discussed their sexual feelings, sex lives, and fantasies. Obviously I don’t know what it feels like to be a man, but I have had the honor of listening to the male perspective on sexual

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8 Things You Never Knew About Men and Sex

Ihesiulo Grace 26 November 2017 0

It’s a common stereotype that for men, sex is like pizza: even when it’s bad, it’s good. But that’s one of the many sexual myths that we might want throw out for good. “We always talk about the differences between men and women, but I think we’ve exaggerated that,” says Abraham Morgentaler, M.D., author of […]

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Ladies, 5 major Signs your boyfriend is Possessive

Ihesiulo Grace 24 November 2017 0

 Today, we begin with the ladies. Ladies, maybe you’re not sure; there are few things your boyfriend does that makes him come off as jealous and overly possessive but just as you’re about to draw your conclusion, you begin to wonder if you’re not reading too much meaning into his behavior. While jealousy and possessive […]

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Why women are not sexually active after one year in a relationship – Study

Ihesiulo Grace 12 November 2017 0

For some, it might be arrogance or swearing, for others it could be tattoos and unconventional piercings. For women, it’s time, apparently, as a new study has found that women lose interest in having sex with their partner after just 12 months of being together. Published in the British Medical Journal Open, the survey collected […]

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What teens really want to know about sex

Ihesiulo Grace 11 November 2017 0

Here are some actual questions from students and my answers to them. I haven’t done any fancy editing; these are the questions just as the kids asked them. They run the gamut from innocent to downright technical. My answers are exactly as I gave them, to show how even a simple question allows for both […]

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13 overlooked reasons why you should thank your boyfriend everyday

Ihesiulo Grace 9 November 2017 0

With New year coming up in a few weeks, let’s kick start this holiday season off by thanking our boyfriends. Most likely he’s spent a decent amount of his paychecks on your gift and for your friends and family. He spends money on food, so you won’t starve to death. He probably also missed an […]

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5 major reasons why Couples should shower together

Ihesiulo Grace 3 November 2017 0

Apart from the s*xual portion, showering as a couple has other immense benefits — and no, we’re not just talking about saving on water. Here’re 5 reasons you should get bathing together instead of solo: 1. It brings you closer as a couple. Yes, you may be sleeping in the same bed and sharing your […]

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Tips on how to create a lasting relationship

Ihesiulo Grace 3 November 2017 0

Have you ever heard the old saying that “Relationships take work?” How does that make you feel when you hear that? Tired? A little frustrated? Do your eyeballs roll back in your head when you think of “working” on your relationship after a long day at the office? Relationships can be a lot of work. […]

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Starting off a new relationship?

Ihesiulo Grace 17 October 2017 0

Ask yourself if truly you are prepared!! Entering a new relationship is a big deal, particularly when your past relationships have continually failed. If you are having reservations about starting fresh with someone new, it might be best to reflect on your dating habits first. Here are some questions to ask yourself to ensure that […]

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Readers’ Feedback Re: Why should he be blamed?

Ihesiulo Grace 11 October 2017 0

When relationship goes sour, who should take the blame, the husband or the wife? I read the Relationship story ‘Why Should He Be Blamed? My advice is that the lady should not have any relationship with Damilare. ……Ben Peters, Lagos. In the first place, why do you have to leave your previous relationship to begin […]

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The Good Ones Are Gone: A bachelor’s search for companion

Ihesiulo Grace 11 October 2017 0

When we were growing up, my grandpa while looking at his wife would smile and then would ask us to pray for a good life partner. We were too young to understand but we loved the smiles they shared. Nearly two decades later,we are living to understand his reasons better. I really wish I didn’t […]

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When Shyness Hits You Up! Expose It!!!   

Ihesiulo Grace 3 October 2017 0

Ann Izedunor Having feelings for someone can sometimes become difficult to handle and more especially when the person you love does not know how you feel about him/her. Love can be hard to find, but when it comes to you, you can either accept it or ignore it. For some reasons, some people are courageous […]

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Women ‘more likely to lose interest in sex than men’

Ihesiulo Grace 29 September 2017 0

A recent report has shown that women are more than twice as likely as men to lack interest in sex when living with a partner, a study of British sexual attitudes suggests. It found that while men and women lost passion with age, women were often left cold by longer relationships. BBC recent report told […]

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Parenting tips for building a good relationship with teens

Ihesiulo Grace 29 September 2017 0

There are several reasons why a good relationship is important in keeping teens safe and healthy. If we the parent are close to our teens then they are less prone to getting into trouble at school, with things such as sex, drugs, drinking and smoking. By having a strong relationship with us, our teens are […]

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Dairy of Abigail

Ihesiulo Grace 28 September 2017 0

Dear diary. It’s been one month since we last spoke. I’m sorry. It hasn’t been a jolly ride. I had an accident coming down the stairs this past month. Just after my fight with Abigail, I was walking down the stairs when tears gathered in my eyes. I had a flash thirteen years ago in […]

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How I Almost Ruined My Marriage Even before we said “I Do”

Ihesiulo Grace 23 September 2017 0

One Thursday morning, we had just dropped our first picture together on Instagram, we did try to keep our relationship and stuffs off social media for a very long while, and I pretty much kept it away from most of the people that knew me, but since it was official now and only a few […]

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Dealing with Love Problems – Annoyance or Liberation?

Ihesiulo Grace 8 September 2017 0

Love is as complicated as a web and a relationship is prone to love problems. But the question is it annoyance or a sort of liberation when you deal with it? When we are in love we might face endless Love issues and problems. How to deal with it? You might be too busy to […]

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Ihesiulo Grace 2 September 2017 0

Why should he be blamed? Life they say is not bed of roses, so also goes for love that would never be a promise of a rose unless it is showered with light of faith, water of sincerity and air of passion. This was all that Oluwadamilare showed during our stay together but as bad […]

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Managing your emotional reactions

Ihesiulo Grace 29 July 2017 0

Emotions are the most present, pressing and sometimes painful force in our lives. We are driven day by day by our emotions. We take chances because we’re excited for new prospects. We cry because we’ve been hurt and we make sacrifices because we love. Without a doubt, our emotions dictate our thoughts, intentions and actions […]

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Relationship 6 Ingredients to Spice up Your Relationship

Ihesiulo Grace 14 July 2017 0

Seeing what the relationship of this our century is turning into, where we tolerate ourselves then call it love, guys cheat on their girlfriends and vice visa. One could say to himself that we need help and healing, if I am permitted to use that, for a change of perspective about what truly a relationship […]