Ivue-Uromi Customary Court dissolves marriage over same-sex relationship, orders ₦150,000 monthly child support

Ivue-Uromi

The Ivue-Uromi District Customary Court in Edo State on April 12, 2017 formally dissolved the marriage between Mrs Gift Okotor and Mr David Okotor, thereby ending a union that began in July 2015 under Esan native law and custom in Idumu-Iyase, Uromi.

Ruling on suit number IDCC/20/2017 the court, presided over by Barr. P. O. Inegbedion and Mr B. O. Egbadon as first and second members respectively, ordered Mrs Gift Okotor to refund the bride price of ₦50,00 to Mr David Okotor, in line with customary requirements following a divorce.

The dissolution followed the court’s finding that Mr David Okotor was involved in a same-sex relationship, a claim brought by the petitioner and considered a serious cultural offence within the Esan traditional framework, as well as one that carries legal consequences under Nigerian law which prescribed a jail term of up to 14 years.

The court granted full custody of the couple’s daughter, Purity, who was born in February 2016 to the petitioner.

Mr David Okotor was directed to pay ₦150,000 monthly to Mrs Gift Okotor for the child’s upkeep, covering feeding, clothing, and general welfare.

In addition, he is to bear all medical and educational expenses as they arise.

Mrs Gift Okotor, through her counsel, Regina Inegbenebor, informed the court that the marriage had broken down irretrievably.

She recounted how Mr David Okotor was caught engaging in sexual activity with another man, an act which, according to Esan tradition, is considered taboo and spiritually dangerous. David Okotor, she said is presently wanted by the Police for questioning

She told the court that remaining in the marriage could expose her to ancestral wrath and even death.

The judgment brings closure to a troubled marriage, with the court’s decision aimed at protecting the child’s welfare and upholding the traditional and legal standards governing marriage within the Esan community.