Opinion

NASTY WOMAN!

This is the word Donald Trump used on Hilary Clinton. In communication, we use words that promote good human relationship, hygienic and healing words, not words that can be used on our enemies that will make him increase the number of soldiers and attack us. We use words that will promote healthy communication and good neighbourliness. Unhygienic statements are also toxic and destructive.
Healthy communication promotes unity in the community and even the whole country. We communicate with everyone in the community because each is an important part of the larger community. We have to know that in a community, what hurts one, hurts the other. When we degrade one member of the community, we are degrading all. We must know the language we use on people because, the words we say can alienate others.
Human beings are vulnerable and they have a right to be “who they are”. They need to be shown respect. They need to be accepted because they have been accepted by God. The words we use on them especially provocative words can hurt people. Then, we have to know who speaks to us with damaging words that touch us and make others see us the way we have been described by someone who might have a mindset of us. We have to know that human beings are complex. We know that the inside reveals our outside. The way we feel can affect the way we see others, and if we know how they feel, we pity them.
They are vulgar in speech and cynical about things. Calling people nasty is a nasty language and conjures many things about the person who calls one nasty. It connotes a lot especially when you address a woman as nasty. If she is a woman of substance, one can be in trouble for she cans pull all on her side to fight the person who demeans women. The American presidential aspirants have been on each other’s throats.
Character assassination has taken its toll on this American election. Each throws words on the other to score political points. Invasion of privacy is taking place in their campaigns. Everything is to lower the prestige of the other. To show that “I am better” than the other becomes the order of the day and many people are watching. What one says to the opponent can affect the poll. There is many opinion shifts because of what the candidates say to each other. Who you are has a lot to tell about you. If you have Donald Trump’s temperament, you can blow out all the time.
Uncontrollable temper yields a low turnout in election poll. Trump has been a victim of his temperament. Everybody has known that his last reference to Hilary Clinton as a “nasty woman” is nauseating and in bad taste. Hilary Clinton has exploited that statement to her own political advantage, broadening it to mean all women. Elizabeth Warren says, “Nasty women are smart, nasty women are tough and they vote”. Trump has no regret for all that. We can resist what hurts others because we feel we have won, when we have lost. Besides, we are a part of each other.
We must guard ourselves from spilling out venom from our mouth in an attempt to hurt our enemies because what we say to our enemies might come back to us. Because what we say can bounce back to us if our enemies know how to use it against us especially in politics as shown in U.S politics of 2016
You cannot buy “being civil”, “being a gentleman” and “comportment of self” in the market. It is also said, “character maketh a man”, not money.
Many people today feel that they can use nasty words on people and that their money will cover them. No. Trump did not know that the remarks he made on women would be haunting him, hence a barrage of criticisms on him. There is a price we pay for using nasty words on people. We have to accept Trump because he always plays the script of his childhood. Unfortunately, it can only disconnect us with others. Unfinished business of our life affects our adulthood. There is no way we can deal with it. It only requires deep therapy if the adult can respond to counselling.

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