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Sex Talk – What Most Women Fantasize About

Women’s sexual fantasies do not always reflect what they want in real life, according to a recently published study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine (Orwig, 2014). For example, while a large proportion of women in the study said they fantasized about being dominated in some way, half of those women specifically indicated that they would not want to live out their fantasy of sexual submission.

Here are some of the things women fantasize about;

  1. BDSM

BDSM according to Wikipedia is a variety of often erotic practices or roleplaying involving bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism, and other related interpersonal dynamics. Regardless of what you think you might know, many women like to be cuffed, pulled by the hair & spanked. And if your lady is into one of these women, then the master & slave is the perfect sexual fantasy for you .When you’re the master, you must leave your fears and shyness outside of the bedroom and be as rough as she lets you. This is no place for timidness; just let your temptations take over. Also, this fantasy is perfect for both of you, because the next time you can change the roles and be her slave. When she ties you down and starts running her tongue all over you trust me, you will be going crazy.

  1. THREESOME

Show me a woman that has never fantasized about a trio and I will prove to you that she is lying. 2 women and a man or 2 men and a woman. Every girl (and most men) have had one of these scripts in their head. She may be dreaming about two hot males fighting over her body and attention, so if you are not against it, make it happen. That sexual fantasy is not something women are usually very vocal about. Let her tell you any worry that she has, it is better to be very sure than to ruin a good relationship. Even if a woman dreams about hot threesome sex, it can be a completely different story when the threesome involves her boyfriend. She can feel insecure, threatened by the other woman or feel unfaithful while engaging in the games with the other man. So speak, and speak about it some more. Lay all the cards on the table. Then, if she says yes, you can move forward and invite somebody over for a magical night.

  1. THE STRANGER

The porn industry is making millions on this fantasy, and for good reason. To be conquered by a stranger is such a romantic and hot dream of so many women. To make it entertaining, dress differently than usual and be an actor for that night. Pretending to be a stranger while exploring her body for the “first time” will be an amazing experience for the both of you.

  1. PUBLIC PLACE

This sexual fantasy is all about having sex in public, sharpening your senses & feeling the fear of being caught. Plus, the charm of breaking the law adds to the fantasy, and all these senses together may lead you both to the highest notes of orgasm. So, now the most important question is, where? Some of the best locations for sex at public places are sex on the beach, parks, cinemas, restaurants, and airport.

  1. MASOCHISM

That means she likes pain. Don’t believe me? Check out the sheer volume of 50 Shades of Gray that were sold. This one is slightly different then submission fantasy. This one is more about the pain itself, rather than dominance. The reason women like this is because when things that would normally hurt a women are administered in the right way, she feels like pure pleasure. Pain becomes pleasure.

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